He always made me feel like I did something wrong…didn’t call for a week and then he texted…I saw his name on my phone screen and it made me sick. My stomach tightened, my belly hurt, I was sweaty and nervous. All of this escalated into panic attacks. When it was already clear that he was throwing me away like a hot potato again, I wrote him one last message. My heart pounded in my throat, I thought I was going to puke. Everything inside me was shaking. No one had ever made me feel this way before. He never responded.He really never cared. It felt like I died inside that night. That’s all I wanted to say.
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He refused to wear a condom
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I had suspicions, but this site proves it! I was seeing Phil for awhile before we had sex. He refused to wear a condom, so I turned down his advances. Well eventually I gave in. A month or so later, I’m watching TV in his room, he’s checking the food in the kitchen, and his phone is buzzing every other dang second. I glanced over and saw the names of three different women sending him text messages. And he told me I was the only one! I calmed down after a few and thought maybe they were just customers. I made a joke about it when he came back, he got mad saying he couldn’t trust me. I saw a whole new side of him, and let’s just say it wasn’t pretty, let me tell you! I should’ve left him right then and there, but next thing I knew we were being intimate. So I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Not even a week later we’re in bed and he’s got his phone on the tv playing porn. I hated him doing that. Killed the moment and I didn’t feel so special anymore. Well things weren’t going well. He got up and went to the restroom with his phone. BUT he forgot his phone was on the tv. I stayed quiet. I saw him flirting with damn near every woman on every site that exists! Plenty of Fish and all those types of sites. But I still stayed quiet. Then he got on Facebook and was hitting up other women thanking him for sex! I was so mad I couldn’t see straight. I got dressed and left. I have never been so insulted in all my life! So all that time we were having unprotected sex, I can guarantee you he was doing the same with all those other women. Thank the Lord I didn’t get any STDs!! That was a close call! DO NOT TRUST HIM!
He bangs women. ANY WOMEN!!!
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Man there are some haters up in here! Lemme set the record straight yall! He bangs women. ANY WOMEN!!! Says it right up on his profile! How you gonna fall for a guy like that??? Bitch please. Get real!
Lupe Lady – Houston, TX

Nasty
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Phil is the most fantastic lay of my life!! Almost worth the herpes and chlamydia. This man is nasty!
Heather – Houston, TX
a thief and a crook!
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This man is a thief and a crook!
Marta – Galveston, TX
grilled me on all of my male friends
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He called me fat cow, or stupid fat cow. When I talked about current events he would call me an idiot or retarded. The verbal abuse started as progressive control as he went through my ‘Facebook’ friends and grilled me on all of my male friends to see if I had slept with them. Then it became insults around what I was wearing, having lip gloss on, breakouts. Then it progressed to “don’t speak unless spoken to” and “nobody will ever love you.” The verbal abuse was constant and escalating. Initially, I would fight for hours, but over time as my self-esteem was chipped away, I gave up and just took it. This abuse took me away from myself, my family and friends. It caused constant fear, anxiety and devastation in my life. I speak openly about it now and became an advocate to others. Do not let him get to you. He isn’t worth it. No sex is worth that. And it looks like I’m not the only one.
Ash – Houston, TX
Back Door Man/ Handyman
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He’s great if you need a back door man and a handyman. Just gonna leave it there.
Nunya – Galveston, TX