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He called me fat cow, or stupid fat cow. When I talked about current events he would call me an idiot or retarded. The verbal abuse started as progressive control as he went through my ‘Facebook’ friends and grilled me on all of my male friends to see if I had slept with them. Then it became insults around what I was wearing, having lip gloss on, breakouts. Then it progressed to “don’t speak unless spoken to” and “nobody will ever love you.” The verbal abuse was constant and escalating. Initially, I would fight for hours, but over time as my self-esteem was chipped away, I gave up and just took it. This abuse took me away from myself, my family and friends. It caused constant fear, anxiety and devastation in my life. I speak openly about it now and became an advocate to others. Do not let him get to you. He isn’t worth it. No sex is worth that. And it looks like I’m not the only one.

Ash – Houston, TX

He’s great if you need a back door man and a handyman. Just gonna leave it there.

Nunya – Galveston, TX

I feel it would help ALL those here to know the definition of rape vs Texas legal prosecution requirements. I wouldn’t call him a rapist. Just sayin. Think for yourself. He can get to my panties but he can’t get to my head or my heart. It’s the only way to mess around with a guy like him. Fuckboi anyone? Am I right?

“The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.”

But in reality… “Rape is forced sexual intercourse, including vaginal, anal, or oral penetration. Penetration may be by a body part or an object. Rape victims may be forced through threats or physical means. In about 8 out of 10 rapes, no weapon is used other than physical force. Anyone may be a victim of rape.”

Sexual assault is unwanted sexual contact that stops short of rape or attempted rape. This includes sexual touching and fondling. (But, be aware: Some states use this term interchangeably with rape.) safeplacenantucket.com

My lawyer told me it comes down to consent. Legally, if you are coerced it’s not a rape charge. And for the sexual assault charge it basically has to be on film or have witnesses. Aka don’t bother because this one is lawyered up!

Lawyered Up – Houston, TX

I thought this guy was legit until he had one of his lame ass bitches drive me home. Then blowin up my phone like wat??? I dont play games. I’ll talk white for some good D. But

This Bitch – Houston, TX

This man made me feel things I’ve never felt before! I felt beautiful and desired. No man ever loved on my curves like that. And he’s not afraid to go down on me! Just be warned, it doesn’t last long. The sex lasts forever, sometimes too long. But his attention wanders as quickly as the wind.

Laura – Houston, TX

Clearly the owner of the site isn’t monitoring it. Otherwise, why would he let these stories stay here? I’ll tell my story and hope that it helps one of you.

I met Phil April 2015. We flirted online for a long time until I felt I could trust him. He was much older, but since he had a house and car and was working, it was still an improvement from my ex. I was also going to school at the time and desperate for someone to escape to. To just be me again.

But in the end, Phil was no better than my alcoholic ex. In fact, he was worse. Turns out there are worse addictions that are easily hidden if you don’t know better. He used gaslighting to make me question my mental stability, to the point that he almost convinced me to see a neurologist and make sure nothing was wrong with my brain. He consistently belittled me and caused me to question every decision I made or thought I had. His brother was no help and was polite enough to refuse to get involved. I began dealing with intense depression and found it increasingly difficult to find enjoyment in things I once loved. I became angry, isolated and searched for acceptance anywhere I could find it.

When I would say I was leaving him, he would become violent, throwing and smashing things. Then a few days later he would explain that he wouldn’t do those things if he didn’t love me. I wish I knew that isn’t love back then. I would give him another chance and he was affectionate and kind again. He was thoughtful and funny. He was extremely nice when I told him I was interested in his drug of choice. I thought he had finally come around because I was being more accepting.

Not long after, I was addicted. He used the addiction to control me. It just kept getting worse and worse. His words became more violent and insulting. Whenever I did have the courage to stand up to him, he would find a new way to belittle me – like telling me to go back to therapist. It got to the point where I didn’t know reality apart from this world he had created. 

Towards the end of our relationship, he threatened to call CPS to take my daughter away so I would know what he was capable of. I now work in domestic violence prevention, hoping that the experience I had will never be endured by another person.

SM – Austin, TX